January 5, 2026
The first working Monday in January has unofficially become known as Divorce Monday – a day where family solicitors often find a peak of people reaching out for advice about divorce, separation, or mediation. And while the name sounds dramatic, there’s a very real and relatable reason behind it.
According to national data, the first quarter of the year has seen the highest number of divorce applications over the past four years. When you combine Christmas stress, financial pressure, and the intensity of spending a long period in close quarters, it’s no surprise that many people reassess their relationships once January arrives.
Why does January feel like breaking point for many couples?
Christmas is meant to be a joyful time, but it can also highlight weak spots in a relationship. If things already felt strained, the festive period may have magnified the issues. Christmas is also expensive, and financial strain is often one of the biggest contributors to relationship breakdown.
Many people also delay making any big decisions before Christmas, especially when children are involved. They don’t want to disrupt the holidays, so they wait. Once the new year begins, reality returns, and the pressure that was building over the holidays reaches a point where change needs to be made.
Why does reaching out for legal guidance matter?
It’s completely natural to feel overwhelmed or unsure about what to do next. Speaking to a family solicitor doesn’t mean you’re committing to divorce, but it will give you clarity. Understanding your rights, your options, and the practical steps ahead can help bring control at a very emotional time.
Whether you’re considering separation, mediation, or just wanting more information about how divorce works, advice early on is invaluable.
What can you do if you are thinking about separation, mediation or divorce as we head into 2026?
If you feel you need support, Bates Wells & Braithwaite’s family law team is here to help. We’re experienced solicitors in Ipswich and Hadleigh, supporting clients through divorce, separation, mediation and all aspects of family law with clear, practical advice.
We also offer free 30-minute family law advice in our Hadleigh pop ups:
- Tuesdays – morning appointments and afternoon drop-ins (1pm onwards)
- Fridays – appointments only
If you’re unsure about your next steps, talking things through with us may help you understand your options and decide what feels right for you.
To speak to a member of our family team or to book your free appointment, please email mail@bates-wells.co.uk or fill in our contact form.